Dear friends 🍂 🍁 🪶
I hope you’re as safe & well as you can be. :)
I wrote this poem after visiting two of my best friends in Spain in 2025. We only see each other in person once a year (if that), so I’ve been curious about how long-distance & long-term friendships exist, struggle, change, etc. I don’t know that this poem is quite there yet, but whittling it down has been fascinating. I hope you enjoy.
Thank you so much for reading, as always. Please take care of yourselves (as well as you’re able). ❤️🩹
With care & gratitude,
Mik
Long-Term - Edits
Long-Term - Revised
In a way, don’t we always forget the time between time—the time apart in figure eights, moving away & back together? Something draws us back across each other’s paths: A tree we recognize without its leaves—comforting as the first clear breath during a cold California morning, biking to practice, preparing to sand our bones until they weren’t quite ours anymore. How unsettling & terrifying that away from each other we’ve changed, that what we love can break down—become new faster than we’re able to learn to love. God, it’s been hard to believe in everyone I’ve never met inside a body I think I know. But as it was for games, when we stacked days we’ve long forgotten, some trees produce fruit once every 2-3 years, and live to at least 300.
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Mik, this poem (and process) has been a gift to sit with for the week. Even the act of editing is illustrative of the change swaying in the poem's undercurrent (we really can't step in the same river twice, can we?)
'In a way, don't we always forget the time / betwen time--the time apart...' ugh, this might be one of the most honoring ways I've heard the love between friends phrased.
There's a gut-wrenching anxiety in the third stanza that lingers, carrying a tune I'm all too familiar with, but the surrounding stanzas are resilient. I'm eye-deep in Kierkegaard's existential philosophy right now, and I hear a fruitful conversation here. I'll spare the comments section--just know you've presented something true and beautiful.
I'm grateful.